I am late on the Blog update. Here’s what we have been up to the last two and a half weeks. Sophie is doing a lot better. However, right after she tore her nail off, she wouldn’t leave it alone. The vet said if she wouldn’t stop licking it to get her a cone of shame. She HATED it, but it did its job. To help we also wrapped it in bitter, blue coban to help her leave it alone, too. After a few days we took it off. She limped for a few more days, but now she is back to normal. Even though the toenail is still completely gone, it doesn’t seem to be painful anymore. She still tried to snuggle despite her cone of shame getting in the way--haha! She seemed pretty interesting in watching what I was watching--haha!
Poor doggo!
Sarah and Daniel had a city youth council activity Monday, October 24. The youth council helped put on a pumpkin walk with trick or treat stations for the city. Daniel’s station was supposed to be haunted. He waited until the last minute to tell me he needed a white sheet for his costume. Well I didn’t have one so we improvised and came up with this. He cut eye holes in it and wore sunglasses.
The decorated the walkways of a city park they put up a ton of luminaries, painted pumpkins and carved pumpkins. You could walk around and see them all. Sarah’s station was a Jurassic Park station. She dressed up as a dinosaur. Here’s her trick or treat station with some fellow youth council members:
Here’s Daniel at his station. He did have other youth council members there with him, but we only got a picture of him. Looks like he cut a hole for his mouth, too.
Noah dressed up as an old man and walked around with us and got candy. It was fun!
G&G T stopped by during the week and dropped off some Halloween goodies for all the kids. I love that they have that tradition every year! Here’s Noah with his treat cup:
Every year we try and make it to the Syracuse Pumpkin Walk as a family, too. It is supposed to be in the evenings when it is dark and all the pumpkins are lit up, but the only time we could go was during the day after I got home from work Saturday. Daniel had to work so it was just Sarah, Noah, Aaron and me.
We love seeing all the pumpkins.
Here’s a few of our favorites:
One perk of going during the daytime is that we were the only ones there. It was pretty awesome!! I am sure it looks a lot better at night, but this wasn’t too bad, either.
Later that evening I wanted to go to Frightmares. Noah, Sarah and Daniel decided to go hang out with friends instead so just Aaron and I went. It was weird being there without kids. It was REALLY COLD, too, but we still had fun with just us two.
We were there for a few hours and went on quite a few rides. We wanted to go one last time before they closed for the season so I was glad we made it.
By the end we were FREEZING! We came home, turned on the fireplace and made some fancy hot chocolate with whipped cream and a cookie--YUM.
The next day we carved pumpkins. I got a cool new pumpkin carving set. All pieces were like cookie cutters that you hammered in with a mallet. That made carving them so much easier. Everyone was able to carve their own pumpkins without using a knife.
We carved them Sunday evening so Matthew could be there with us, too.
Here’s the results:
The next day was Halloween. I really missed not going to the elementary school halloween parade this year....We did get to talk to Josh that morning on his P-day. Later that evening after pizza we picked up from Daniel, the kids got ready to go out trick or treating. All Little Caesar’s employees were required to work Halloween night since it is their busiest night. That, unfortunately, included Daniel who was scheduled to close that night so he didn’t get home until late. Sophie still HATED her costume, but I made her wear it.
Sarah the dinosaur:
Noah the old man:
Matthew the pickle:
Daniel the Little Caesar’s employee--haha! This picture is from last year because we didn’t take a picture of him before he went to work that afternoon/evening.
I know Matthew is 21, but he still LOVES to go trick or treating. I had Sarah and Noah take him around to a few houses in our neighborhood that know Matthew and then they came back home. Afterward Noah went out to do some more trick or treating with friends and Sarah went to a friend's house for a party.
It was a good night! After all the trick or treaters were done we took Matthew back to his group home. He had a fun night.
The next day the kids had no school. I was able to get a baptismal appointment at the Brigham City Temple (the Ogden Temple was completely booked) so we went and did Baptisms for the Dead. Aaron had to work and Matthew was going to go to the Day program so it was just us four:
I never took pictures of the kids this year so before we went into the temple I took a few pictures of the kids to put on my wall with the pretty foliage around the temple.
We were able to do some family names which is always cool.
The high school hosted a job fair for the students last week. Daniel, although he has been working at Little Caesar’s for over a year, wanted to see what else was out there. He brought a stack of resumes with him and handed them out as he made the rounds of the companies that were present. They did a speed dating thing, but only with job interviewing. They only had a few minutes to talk to each employer about the jobs they had open. Daniel went and is getting a few interviews from the job fair. His picture was posted on the high school Facebook page. It was fun to see Daniel in that setting!
This past week I was asked to do a painting activity with the young women in our ward. It was for the two older classes. I did a few pictures and I let Sarah choose which one she wanted to paint and this is the one she chose:
So we had about 20 girls that got to paint. Hopefully they liked it! Sarah said she liked it so I will hope the rest did, too.
Daniel had the Sadie Hawkins dance this past Saturday. Their group went to Seaquest for the day date. His date wasn’t able to drive so Daniel drove that evening. Here he is before he left on the day date:
The theme of the dance was the 50s. Daniel wore a white t-shirt and Aaron’s OLD leather jacket. He tried to slick back his hair, but his hair had other ideas--haha! Here he is before he went to pick up his date:
Here’s the pictures they got before the dance:
After the dance they all came back to our house to watch a movie. Daniel’s date had a curfew of 11pm so her mom came and picked her up since she lives up in North Ogden. Daniel got to be solo the rest of the evening.
Matthew had his IEP meeting via Zoom this past week. I had to work up until 10 minutes before the IEP meeting started. My plan was since it was over Zoom I could pull over in the car where I was at and join in. However, when I pulled over I had absolutely no cell service so I had to drive until I did had cell service. I ended up being a few minutes late, but it was just the part where they go over all the same procedural safeguards that I have heard for about 18 years now. Matthew got to lead his meeting. He had a few ’squirrel’ moments where he got sidetracked, but overall he did great. He had his teacher with him, the others on the call were his support coordinator, the principal, the vocational rehab representative, Aaron and me.


Things went well until my phone up and died five minutes before the meeting ended. DOH!! My phone has been on the fritz lately which was a bit frustrating. I was able to hear most of the meeting, though. Aaron was on for the whole meeting which was great! He filled me in on the things I missed. Matthew will get evaluated for job placement in January/February. We are hoping to have him set up in a job before he graduates Vista in May. He is so excited!! Matthew also got a new housemate. His name his Mason and Aaron and I got to meet him a few Sundays ago. He is nonverbal and uses sign language. Aaron and I know a little bit of sign language since that is how we communicated with Matthew for a time back when he didn’t talk. It was around the time he was age 1-4 years old. It is hard to believe he didn’t speak. We have the exact opposite problem now--we can’t get him to STOP talking. I guess he is making up for lost time--haha! Anyway, we learned most of the sign language from watching the kids’ TV show 'Signing Time with Alex and Leah' and Matthew’s PECS system. We know the basics like drink, yes, no, hungry, mom, dad, day, I, want, candy, all done, more, cookie, help, etc. I might need to brush up on it now Matthew has this new housemate--haha!
Josh is doing well. He got transferred out of the city into the suburbs. He is missing being in the middle of the city and riding a bike, but is still enjoying things.
The mission home emailed everyone and told us in order to get their Christmas presents on time for Christmas they needed to be mailed no later than December 1. DOH!! I am late to the party. Good thing tomorrow is Veteran’s Day and Aaron has the day off. We will take care of Christmas for Josh tomorrow. One thing we get to add to his Christmas is a new pair of glasses. He took 3 pairs out on his mission and he broke the 2nd pair (the side arm snapped off) this last week and is now down to only one pair of glasses. He really needs to see so we ordered him another pair from Zenni that will hopefully be done soon. I keep telling him seeing is overrated--haha!
I am secretly a bit relieved he is not on a bike anymore after he sent us these short videos while he was riding in traffic during a heavy rain storm.....I am happy he has not been injured more often!
We have gotten snow a few times in the last week. That is crazy!! Bring on the sweatshirt weather!!