We have had a bit of a busy week. With Preference for Matthew coming up we needed to get him some nice clothes to wear to the dance. However, I am a bit nervous because one of the girls that is taking the special needs group called me last week and talked to me a bit about the plans, however, things weren't finalized. She said she would call me later with more information and I haven't heard back from her yet and the dance is supposed to be Saturday....I am keeping my fingers crossed things work out ok. Anyway, to stay on the positive side of things we did go out and pick up some nice clothes for Matthew to wear to the dance. The theme is black and white and Matthew had grown out of his black pants so we needed to get some new ones anyway. They happened to have suits on sale for pretty cheap and I also had a coupon so we decided to pick him up a suit. When we got it home Aaron thought he'd be funny and try it on and sing his best rendition of 'Fat Guy in a Little Coat' from the Tommy Boy movie.
Thankfully he didn't rip it like Tommy Boy ended up doing in the movie! He thought he was pretty hilarious and so did the kids.
Anyway, Matthew is all set for the dance. Hopefully, I hear from one of the girls that are taking them soon--seeing as the dance is Saturday.
In other things I was doing a bit of spring cleaning and decided my oven needed to be cleaned. It had been a while since it had been cleaned so it was past due. I turned the self cleaning feature on the top oven. It automatically locked and put up the 4 hour time count down until it would be finished. However, I forgot to actually check the oven before I turned on the self cleaning option which was a mistake. I had forgotten to take out the last batch of cookies Josh had baked the day before. Whoops! There was so much smoke pouring out of the oven. I just figured the oven was pretty dirty--I didn't realize that there was something actually burning inside it until I opened the oven after it was done self cleaning and found the burned remains of the last pan of cookies with the melted silicone baking sheet, too. All that white stuff is ash baked on to the entire inside of the oven.
It was so bad I had to do another oven clean the next morning to try and burn off all the ash because I couldn't scrub it off. The inside of the oven is supposed to be blue if you can't tell. It was bad!!
After that self clean cycle my whole house smells of burning smoke. It has been a week and my house still stinks of smoke. It is bad. I have left all the windows open during the day and bought a ton of Febreeze, but it still smells like we smoke 10 packs a day. Ugh!! Needless to say I have learned my lesson to check the oven before I do another oven clean again. I am hoping I don't get any anonymous Nicorette gum packs left on my front porch--haha!The kids have been doing a fun fundraiser celebrating Valentine's for a few weeks. For a quarter you can buy a Valentine-gram with a pencil and send it to whomever you want at the elementary school. Sarah came home the other day with one that was sent to her from a Secret Admirer. Hubba Hubba! She was pretty excited. She had an idea of who it came from, but wouldn't tell us :).
I still think she is too young to have a secret admirer!! She doesn't agree, though.
Noah is learning a bit about money at school. They let the kids design their own person for the $100 bill. Noah did his best self portrait. I would love to have that awesome $100 bill!!
Daniel got his basketball pictures back. It is fun to see how they turn out. Noah was supposed to get his done, but we spaced it that day and he didn't get there in time for the pictures :(. We will make sure to get them next time!!Valentine's was yesterday. Aaron loves making sure that Sarah gets a Valentine from him every year. He gave her a pretty rose in a vase with a cute note asking her to be his Valentine. He left it out for her to find when she woke up the next morning for breakfast. What a sweet Dad!
Sarah had to get all Valentine-y for school. We found a heart shirt and then did a heart hairdo for her to wear to school.
Here's her heart bun that she wore.
I braided the two sides of her hair back into the heart bun:
I used enough hairspray that it still looked good this morning so she wore it again to school like that today, too. Wahoo--double win!!
While I was getting Sarah ready for school Noah wrote her this sweet note that says, "You are the best sister in my life. Will you be my Valentine, Sarah 💓💓💓"
As we were getting everyone ready that morning I noticed Sarah asking for a shoe box. I asked her why and she said she wanted to make one to put her Valentines in. What?! Her teacher said that Valentines were optional so I assumed they weren't going to make a big deal of them. I knew they were going to have a party, but I didn't know she wanted to make her own Valentine's box. We scrambled around and found an old shoe box and she started to decorate it. Too bad Matthew's IEP (Individual Education Plan) meeting with the special education teacher, regular education teacher, speech teacher, vice principal, us and Matthew was that morning and I ran out of time to help her with her box before I had to leave for the IEP meeting. Had she mentioned that she wanted to make her own box the day before I would have been all over that, but seeing as I had no idea about the box she was on her own to decorate it. This is what she came up with:
Pretty good for 15 minutes of work the morning of Valentine's Day!!
I knew Daniel's class was having a Valentine's party, too, but there was no word about Valentine boxes so I assumed they would have a holder for everyone at school. That was not the case so Daniel just unzipped his backpack and laid it out over his desk for people to put the Valentines in. I asked Daniel afterward why he didn't make a box and he told me because he wanted to use his backpack so he wouldn't have to share his treats. What a stinker!! That's parent tax evasion ;)!!
As for Noah they made their own Valentine holders at school so at least he had something to put his Valentine's in:
That morning was pretty crazy. Since we did have the IEP meeting that morning Aaron stayed home from work and was able to help me get everyone ready for school before we had to leave. It was so nice to have the help!! After making sure everyone was ready for school and had their Valentine's we left for the IEP meeting. When we got to the high school we had to find the classroom and then we met with Matthew's IEP team. Before the meeting started they all took a turn to tell us how much they loved Matthew and what a special kid he is. Matthew was there and when he gets embarrassed he doesn't quite know what to do so he started yelling out freeway exit numbers and city names. We had to get him calmed down before we could proceed with the meeting. Side note is Matthew LOVES getting on to Google maps and memorizing roads, exit numbers, cities, etc. That is what they let him do as a reward for good behavior in school. He likes everyone to refer to him as the human GPS and to give the kid credit he really does know a lot of road numbers, exit numbers, city names, etc. If I am driving around and trying to get somewhere Matthew will tell me the directions whether I want to hear them or not. Seeing as he wants to be the human GPS, he likes to give anyone directions if he hears they are driving anywhere. When he found out that they young men and young women in our ward were going to go to Snow College for youth conference he had their route mapped out for them despite them not going for another 4 months. To make sure they were going to know the way he waited until Aaron and I were busy getting kids/lessons ready and not paying attention Sunday Morning to sneak onto Google maps and print out the directions to Snow College to give to the leaders at church. Luckily, Aaron saw him carrying around some papers before we got in the car to go to church and asked what they were. Matthew sheepishly told him they were driving directions for Snow College. We made him leave the papers home because they don't need the driving directions yet. I guess Aaron and I will be needing to check Matthew for map contraband before leaving for church or any youth activity until June. We don't know what to do with that kid!!
Anyway, back to Matthew's IEP meeting after introductions were made all the participants went around and told us how they all loved Matthew. Now I usually dread going to the IEP meetings because it mostly involves talking about behavior problems and possible solutions as well as how far behind Matthew is compared to his peers, basically focuses on the differences Matthew has compared to a typical person his age, etc. It is hard to listen to, however, after hearing how much these people actually love Matthew it was reassuring to know they really want to help Matthew succeed. Before it the IEP meeting started and Matthew was wound up yelling out driving directions the Spanish teacher was trying to calm Matthew down and speaking Spanish to Matthew. Matthew actually could understand what the teacher was saying and in between yelling out driving directions would answer the teacher in Spanish. Aaron and I don't speak Spanish so we don't know what was said, but we do know that Matthew understood and could respond in Spanish to his teacher. That was pretty cool to see. The teacher even mentioned that their next unit in Spanish was going to be about directions. I am excited for Matthew because he will really love that, however, I am sure everyone else will probably groan because driving directions in Spanish won't be very helpful to very many people from our very own human GPS--haha! Oh well, what can you do?!
The IEP went on and we made goals, saw Matthew's progress on his past goals and made a few decisions about Matthew's future. The Spanish teacher did his part first and then it was the speech teacher's turn. She started off by telling us about Matthew's strengths and how she loves having him in her social skills class. We set a few goals then it was the special education teacher's turn. Before she started she got teary eyed telling us about how special Matthew is and how much she enjoys having him in her class. We set a few goals and then the Vice Principal chimed in telling us about a few experiences she has had with Matthew. Now Matthew likes to get to know the people in charge at the school--the resource officer, the principal, the vice principals, the secretaries, etc. so they all know who Matthew is. The Vice Principal said she likes talking with Matthew when she sees him in the hallway. She then shared two experiences she had with Matthew. Just to let you know Matthew is an avid rule follower (most times). Matthew was walking to class chatting with the Vice Principal when the Vice Principal saw a kid wearing a hat and told him to take it off because it not allowed. The kid completely ignored the vice principal after two requests. After that Matthew went over and told the kid to take off his hat because it was against the rules. The kid just looked at Matthew, took off his hat while muttering and walked away. Another experience is they were having a school wide assembly and Matthew couldn't find his friend to sit with. He was really upset and had a hard time calming down. The Vice Principal found two seats and said that she would be his friend and to sit by her for the assembly. As they were sitting down one of the school body officers moved chairs so she could sit by Matthew. That calmed Matthew down enough where the Vice Principal could leave, but she kept coming back to check on Matthew to make sure he was ok. The student body officer was able to calm him down and he was happy sitting by her. When the Vice Principal came to check on him a few times Matthew just waved her away because he was too interested in watching the assembly sitting by his student body officer friend. It was reassuring to know that Matthew has a bunch of people that look out for him at school. I always worry about that because kids that age can be mean, so it was nice to hear good stories about people watching out for him. Don't get me wrong, Matthew does have his trying times even at school, but overall the whole IEP meeting went really well. I actually walked out of there with tears in my eyes because it turned out to be an uplifting meeting. It was great to have an uplifting IEP meeting and to also have that stressing task checked off my list.
After the IEP meeting I picked up a FiiZ drink to congratulate myself for getting through that hurdle and to sustain me through the next hurdle which was helping with Daniel's class Valentine's Party. No rest for the weary--haha! Since I wasn't going to be home when Matthew got home from school I left him a note saying that I was helping in Daniel's class and for him to go on to his after school program. He gets upset if I am not home when he gets home from school and even more upset if I am gone and haven't left a note telling him where I am. I didn't want him to get upset so I left a note saying I was helping out for Daniel's class party at the elementary school hoping he would be ok with that. Anyway, as for Daniel's class party I didn't sign up to help for the party, but the teacher (who happens to be a neighbor) asked me to help with the food because of Daniel's allergies. I didn't mind helping. The teacher wanted to pick up pizza for the students so the day before she dropped off some money so I could go pick up the pizzas. I also picked up some Daniel safe cookies and called a few other parents and had them bring Daniel safe foods, too. We all got to the classroom before the party started to set up. The kids were so excited to see the pizza! After getting them all situated with their food and drink, they started in with playing the Valentine games another mom had prepared. As I was watching the games I was surprised to get summoned over to the teachers desk because the office wanted to talk to me. I was confused until I picked up the phone and the secretary told me my son was calling. I guess my note to Matthew wasn't enough and he still needed to see where I was at. I didn't even know he knew the phone number to the elementary school. Luckily, I just told the secretary to tell Matthew to go on ahead to his after school program and that was all he needed to hear to make things ok. That crazy kid!! Anyway, back to Daniel's party during the games the teacher told me about Daniel's Valentine. Daniel had mentioned he wanted to ask a girl to be his Valentine, but after mentioning it to his friend, his friend asked the girl to be his Valentine instead. Daniel wasn't too pleased about that, but what can you do?! Daniel wouldn't tell me the name of his Valentine, but in talking to the teacher she told me who she thought it was. It was nice to get some insider information from the teacher--haha! The party was fun and Daniel's backpack worked out great for a Valentine's drop box so we dodged a bullet there--haha! Next year I will be sure to double check with the kids about Valentine boxes before their parties!!
When we got home from school I was looking through Sarah's valentines I found a few interesting ones. There was this one that said, "I like you, so long as the ocean is blue". There wasn't a name signed to it, either. What a suave, debonair kid!
Then there was this one that Sarah let slip was her real Valentine. I covered his name for Sarah's privacy, but he signed his name along with 'your love'. Hubba hubba, Sarah!! Even as young as she is she is a heart smasher--haha! I volunteer in her class so now that I know who it is, I will really have to check him out--haha!Noah had a sweet Valentine for Aaron and me. It was a cut out of his hand.
On the inside it said, "I love you Mom and Dad". I LOVED it!!
In Matthew's after school program they had a Valentine's party, too. They made their own Valentine holders (I was glad I didn't mess up on that Valentine holder, too). Anyway, he got lots of fun stuff from the other clients and staff at the program. They also played some fun Valentine games, too.
With 4 of my 5 kids doing Valentine stuff at school or after school Josh felt a little left out. Poor guy! It is hard to get older and miss out on the fun Valentine parties!
For dinner I thought we could have a fun 'Red' dinner. I dyed the spaghetti noodles red. We also had red sauce, garlic bread with red Salad Supreme seasoning and a red strawberry smoothie to drink.
For dessert I decorated sugar cookies for each kid. Who knew that working in a bakery as a teenager would help me out later in life--haha!Saturday Aaron and I tried out a new recipe we found. It is a pierogi casserole. Here's the recipe. Aaron served his mission in Canada with a lot of Ukranian people that served these so he learned to love them. A pierogi is like a ravioli only instead of stuffed with cheese it is stuffed with mashed potatoes and onions. Surprisingly enough the kids didn't really like it. Aaron loved it, but it was a bit too rich for me. He made a ton of pans so when we found out the kids didn't care for it we gave some away to the neighbors. Their kids liked it a lot so it turned out good in the end. Here's what ours looked like:
We love trying out new and interesting recipes. We will have to see what we try out next weekend.
Noah is the master of sneaking out of bed after being tucked in. However, I don't get too upset because I get to have lubs in the evening. Aaron just tells me I spoil him, but I still don't care. I love my baby lubs!
Even though I drive everywhere I still make Aaron nervous. This meme basically sums up Aaron watching me park--haha!