"God doesn't give children with special needs to strong people; He gives children with special needs to ordinary, weak people and then gives them strength. Raising a child with special needs doesn't take a special family, it makes a special family."--Author Unknown

Tuesday, May 26, 2015

Bread, Fundraisers, Math, Temple, Zoo, Graduation, BBQ

Last week Aaron was asked by Daniel's teacher to do a presentation about how he uses math in his every day work.  Aaron was a little intimidated, but did great.  20 minutes with a bunch of 3rd graders can be daunting--haha! Noah and I came along for some moral support, but again, Aaron did great.  He talked about his work on the amphibious tank and also his current support of the F-16 jets.  Daniel was excited to have Aaron come to his class.
 Two Saturdays ago Matthew and Josh's piano teacher had a huge fundraiser held in her honor.  She has stage four cancer and has been fighting it for awhile.  She is an amazing person so we wanted to help out.  I volunteered to make 18 loaves of bread to donate to the bake sale.  I had to have them baked and delivered Friday night.  Unfortunately, our family was all out of bread, too, so what was only supposed to be 18 loaves baked ended up being 36 loaves since our family needed our own 18 loaves, too.  DOH!!  When they were all done they covered a big chunk of my kitchen counter!!  I was a baking maniac that day--haha!  The house smelled so yummy, but it was hard to keep the kids from snatching the bread to eat.
 Friday night was Ladies Night.  It is always a  nice night and break from kids.  I love my kids, but an occasional break is a good thing for me.  We had fun visiting and making different food items to share.  I brought a Confetti Salad which was pretty good.  My kids are not a fan of that particular salad so I only make it when others can help me eat it :).

The next morning was the day of the fundraiser.  Unfortunately, the weather didn't cooperate very well.  It ended up being rainy all morning long.  We decided to head over late morning to check things out and to see what goodies were left.  There was nothing.  There was an incredible turn out to the fundraiser and everything was gone.  There were donations of all kinds--spa giveaways, a finished basement giveaway, etc.  It was such a neat thing to see the whole community come together to help her out.  We got to the fundraiser just in time for the balloon release.  Everyone was given a purple balloon and gathered together in the grass.  We sang a few primary songs and then released the balloons.  Here we are waiting for everyone to get their balloons:
 It was amazing to watch--although my eyes were teary from the primary songs.
 Since the rest of the Saturday was rainy we decided to right a grievous wrong--our kids had never seen the Star Wars movies.  We had a Star Wars marathon the rest of the day.  We didn't get through all the movies, but got a good start on them.  I can't believe it has taken us this long to watch them!!  Even though they were so 'old' (Josh's words), the kids still enjoyed them.

Last week was a crazy busy week for us!  Monday we had tickets for the Payson Temple open house.  Since the only time we could get for our family was at noon, we just let the kids have the day off from school that day.  The drive down to Payson was about 90-100 minutes just by itself one way.  The kids have pretty great attendance so one day missed wasn't going to be so bad.  Luckily G&G T were able to come along with us.  When we got to our time we started out watching the movie about temples in the nearby church and then we headed over to the temple to walk through it.
 You can't take pictures inside the temple, but it was so beautiful.  The kids have been really lucky in being able to walk through a few temple open houses in the last few years!  We did take a few pictures outside the temple when our tour was done, though.
 It really is a beautiful temple.  We were glad we were able to go.
 Tuesday morning Josh had his annual physical appointment with the pediatrician.  Josh is officially taller than Matthew at this point by 1/2 inch.  He also weighs 107.8 pounds.  He is getting so tall.  Josh wanted to prove he was taller so we had to get out the level to prove it.
Since this physical also counted as his scout camp physical, too, they had to do a hernia check.  Josh has never had one of those before.  Luckily, Aaron and I were able to explain what was going to happen before it did.  Aaron had no idea about hernia checks when he was Josh's age so when the doctor checked Aaron, Aaron was quite surprised to say the least.  Even with us warning Josh, he still did not like it AT ALL!  Oh well it is just one of those necessary evils in life.  I just told him to be glad he wasn't a woman because their checks are a lot worse!!  After reading through the Scout Physical form, there is a question about having a seizure within the last year.  The doctor told us that since Josh has had a few seizures within the last year, they might restrict his activities up at camp, but to check with the camp director to make sure.  Hearing this really seemed to upset Josh.  I felt horrible for him.  On the way home from the appointment I talked to Aaron and told him about it.  Aaron decided to contact the Camp director to see what he said about it.  Luckily, the camp director listened to the situation and said that as long as Josh's seizures are controlled (which they are for now and Josh really only has seizures at night) and that we as parents are ok with all the camp activities there wouldn't be any restrictions on Josh.  We were all glad to hear that.  It also helps that Aaron will be able to go up to Camp for a few days with Josh, too.  I hate seeing your kid have a hard time with something you can't help him with!! Sometimes life just isn't fair!
 

Tuesday night was supposed to be baseball, but it got cancelled since there has been so much rain lately.  It's been crazy!

Wednesday morning Sarah had an all day field trip to the zoo that I got to chaperon.  As we were all getting ready for the day that morning, Daniel bit in to his breakfast and then fished out a 'rock' which ended up being his tooth.  He hadn't told anyone it was that loose because he wanted to surprise us all.  He surprised me most of all because he just put this bloody tooth in my hand without telling me what it was first.  Ewwww!!  I HATE teeth and think that anything about them are gross.  However, Daniel thought he was hilarious by putting his tooth in my hand.  I was not amused....
 After getting over the tooth drama I went on the zoo field trip with the first grade.  I was in charge of four girls which ended up being a lot harder than I thought it would be.  We got to see lots of neat things.  Here was a peacock with all his feathers out.  He was walking around squawking at everyone, too.
 The girls' favorite were the elephants.
 After seeing all the animals at the zoo we met up with all the other first graders at the entrance where there was a fountain.  I don't know what it is about water or getting wet, but all kids love it.  By the time we were leaving all the kids were soaked.
 Sarah and I did get to sneak away to see this lady's bird.  There was no one around her so we got to get pretty close to the bird.  It was interesting to hear her tell us about the bird.
 The zoo trip was fun and I was glad I was able to go along.  The next day Sarah came home with this for me and Grandma T to say thanks for volunteering this year.  As you can see from the orange spots Sarah had eaten some Cheetos right before she gave it to me.  Her teacher was so sweet!
 Her teacher also had all the kids in her class write us thank you notes for reading with them and for chaperoning the zoo field trip.  The notes were so sweet!
 The next morning was Noah's last day of preschool.  They had a water day despite the temperature only being in the 60s.  Brrrr!  I didn't have time to look for Noah's swimming suit that morning so I sent him in comfy clothes that could get wet.  However, Noah refused to get in the water at all since he wasn't wearing his swimming suit.  He spent the whole 2 1/2 hours just sitting on his towel because he didn't feel he could get wet since he wasn't wearing his swimming suit.  What a stinker!!  His teacher had a lot of fun activities set up to play with, but Noah didn't do a whole lot with them.  Here he is sitting in the back corner on his towel.
When I picked Noah up he gave me a tongue lashing for not sending him in his swimming suit.

When I got home from picking Noah up from preschool I got a call from the school.  I HATE calls from the school.  Daniel had fallen in recess and at PE and hit his head.  He said he had headache and needed to come home.  I went and picked him up and as soon as I brought him home, I got another call from the school.  This time it was from Matthew's teacher telling me his eyes were swollen and his allergies were bothering him pretty badly.  They had gone on a walking field trip and it didn't quite agree with Matthew.  DOH!!  I had to load everyone back up in the care and go over to give Matthew an allergy pill and eye drops.  Can you see why I HATE getting calls from the school?!  Luckily, it wasn't anything too bad this time!  Phew!

That night it was preschool graduation.  This picture sums up a lot of Noah's personality:
 I asked him to smile and he started being really goofy.  He got better when the program actually started, though.  He lead the Pledge of Allegiance:
 He also got to be one of the five little speckled frogs for his part of the program.  He was pretty cute in my biased opinion:
 They also sang their goodbye song which was a little sad.
 Afterward I wanted to get a picture of Teacher Sara and Teacher Grandma, but could only get Teacher Grandma.  Noah LOVED Teacher Grandma.  Noah was being Noah and this was the best ungoofy picture I could get from him:
 It made me a little sad to think that that would be the very last preschool graduation we will ever go to with my own kids :(.  They grow up too fast!  We were glad G&G T and G&G M were able to come to the graduation with us, though.

Noah got a 'diploma' however, it said his name was Noah Terry instead of Mancil.  Aaron looked at me and kiddingly said, "Do you have anything you need to tell me?"  Haha Aaron!  Noah also got his ABC book at graduation that showed all the letters they had learned about throughout the year.

Being a typical boy Noah's favorite letter page was 'U' because it had underwear on it.
Friday day the Girl's Camp Director, Young Women President and I went to check out the campsite for this years girls camp.  It makes things easier to plan after seeing what the actual place looks like.  I am so glad the Camp Director and I work so well together.  It will make planning this years camp a little easier!  The closer camp gets, the more crazy things seem to be getting!  Good thing there is almost two whole months left to plan....

Friday night Aaron and I were able to go out on a date because G&G M offered to watch the kids for us.  Wahoo!!  It was nice to have some uninterrupted adult conversation over dinner.  It was nice to have some time together, too.  Things have been pretty busy lately, so it seems like Aaron and I have to divide and conquer quite a bit.  It was a nice date.

Saturday was so rainy that we really couldn't do a lot.  We had another movie marathon--Harry Potter.  Josh and Daniel really loved it since they have read the books.

Monday was Memorial Day.  Aaron got up with Josh, Matthew and Daniel and helped put up flags in yards for the scout fundraiser.  When they were done we headed over to Lagoon for a fun family day.  It was a really busy day so we only stayed for a few hours before we left.  We had a lot of fun in those few hours, though.


 
 
In the last hour of our visit we decided to ride Rattlesnake Rapids.  It's a ride that you get wet on.  Matthew rode it once and then absolutely refused to ride it again.  I stayed out with Matthew, Sarah and Noah while Aaron rode it again with Josh and Daniel.  I was able to get a picture of them on the ride as they came by us:
 All of us were pretty soaked by the end so we came home.  We then had a BBQ with G&G T.  The kids were really excited to see them come over:
 The weather was nice enough we were able to eat outside:
 It was a fun weekend.

We got our garden in finally.  This year we decided to try something new--strawberries.  Noah is excited because he LOVES strawberries.  The plants we got from the nursery already had a few small strawberries on them, but they didn't last too long before Noah picked them all off and ate them.  What a crazy kid!
 

Tuesday, May 19, 2015

Mother's Day

My Mother's Day was pretty great.  It started on Saturday morning.  Aaron surprised me by sending me out of the house by myself to get my hair cut and highlighted.  While I was gone he and the kids cleaned the whole house for me.  When I got back from my haircut Aaron had planned a Mother's Day party with my family.  He had invited everyone and had cooked the dinner so I wouldn't have to do anything.  It was AWESOME!!  The next morning the kids cooked me breakfast in bed which was an interesting combination.  They brought me some hard boiled eggs, some cereal, some Fritos, some cake mix batter, some toast and Josh made me a very interesting drink.  It included some Diet Mountain Dew with some milk, Hershey chocolate powder, Nesquik Strawberry powder and honey.  Josh didn't tell me what was in the drink until after I had had a sip.  It was...let's just say interesting...HAHA!  While everyone I was eating  my breakfast I got to open all the kids Mother's Day presents which is one of my favorite things about Mother's Day.  Here's everyone helping me eat my breakfast while I opened their presents:
 
At church all of the women got to attend Relief Society while the Young Women and Men took care of the primary kids.  Aaron was in charge of getting volunteer Elders to help out.  He was a bit stressed because he had to be in charge of primary, but I am sure he did great.  You can do almost anything for an hour, right?!  Good thing he has a year to recover from it before he has to worry about it again--haha!  All the primary kids sang during Sacrament Meeting.  I only had three kids up on the stand this time.  My kids are growing up too fast!!

After church I got to have a guilt free Mom nap which was awesome!!  Then Aaron cooked Sunday dinner, too.  We had a weenie roast which was fun.  I was spoiled!  I am thankful for my husband and kids and for the chance I have to be a mom!!!
Later that day all the kids Facetimed Grandma Mancil to say Happy Mother's Day.  It was a bit tough to try and fit in 6 faces on the small phone screen, but it seemed to turn out.
I am thankful for my own mom.  She helps me a lot whether it be my pseudo psychologist, or personal cheerleader or the great example she sets I am glad I can look up to her for support and an example!  Here's some oldie pictures I found of us:

My mom was always willing to participate in all our family activities even roller skating:
Getting our Young Womenhood Recognition Awards at the same time:
Building the cabin:
Just hanging out:
Graduation:
Here's some of the Mother's Day gifts I got:
 
I love the card Aaron gave me.  We are all about comedy at our house as you can see:

Here's a card from Sarah:

Josh made me a collection of funny comics at school:
Sarah made me another Mother's Day card at school:
Daniel's card:
Noah was supposed to make a Mother's Day present at preschool, but he missed that day since it was my Grandma Gee's funeral.  Aaron helped Noah make something at home.  Aaron wrote a sweet poem about Noah and dandelions since Noah is always picking them for me because he thinks they are such pretty flowers. 

Dandelions are a lot like me
We both are always underfoot
And we run wild and free.
We grow quickly
The Dandelion and Me,
Before you know it
We have grown tall like a tree.
We both transform,
The Dandelion and Me.
We start off as a small flower,
And then we grow into something beautiful and happy
We both spread everywhere
The Dandelion and Me
Because you loved and taught me
Your influence will be spread throughout eternity.
Sarah made this hand print poem which makes me cry when I read it:
Sarah answered some questions about me which were pretty funny:

Daniel made a really sweet book for me:




 
 



Daniel also made me a coupon book:

Matthew made me some bath salts, too:
I had an awesome Mother's Day!  I am grateful that I am a mom.  Even though I am far from perfect and continue to be a work in progress  I still love my job!!